How to Give Yourself Grace When You Feel Ugly
What to Do When You Feel Ugly
Feeling ugly can be one of the biggest pitfalls feminine women face on their manifestation journey.
There are three main ways by which we may respond in moments when our nasty voice within is less than supportive. Put another way, there are three main ways by which we may respond when we feel ugly:
a) we may be completely dismantled and debilitated
b) we may stuff the feelings down and harden ourselves forcing ourselves to believe that we are perfect the way that we are & relying on outside influences to align with this stance
c) we may give ourselves grace and fully sit in our feelings of ugliness while integrating these hurting parts of ourselves into our Higher, Loving Self
This blog post is discussing how to do the latter of these three in response to the oftentimes detrimental feminine urge of feeling ugly.
How to Give Yourself Grace When You Feel Ugly
What Does It Mean to Feel Ugly?
Feeling ugly is a state in which we feel inadequate. When we feel ugly, we are usually holding ourselves to some standard and seeing that we fail to measure up to the standard which we are using to judge or compare ourselves.
Comparison is the thief of joy
Hence, feeling ugly is something that is strictly human and which is unnatural to our Spirit and to our Higher and Purer Selves. From a Spiritual perspective, we are all Beautiful and made in an Image of Love. When we feel ugly, we are in a state in which we have navigated ourselves away from our Spiritual Truth, have attached to the frequency and density unique to the 3-D plane, and have allowed this density to override our Spirit.
Oftentimes, the reason that this feeling of ugliness or inadequacy is so painful is because we tend to believe that because of our inadequacy that we will be unable to have our needs met.
If you are unfamiliar with the basic idea of what the fundamental human needs are, the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs may be an easy place for you to start your consideration of what human needs are and how they relate one to another.
What Does It Mean to Give Yourself Grace When You Feel Ugly?
Grace is a state of acceptance being contained in Love through reason.
When we look at the vibrational frequency chart we see that acceptance and Love are of the Higher Vibrational States.
Additionally, we see that between these two states is the energetic frequency of reason, which is, unsurprisingly, the key to grace.
How to Give Yourself Grace When You Feel Ugly
Part One: To give yourself grace means to accept how you feel without assigning any judgement that you should or should not feel the way that you do. When it comes to feeling ugly, giving yourself grace means that you accept that you feel ugly. Instead of trying to reason your way out of feeling the way that you do or trying to harden yourself to avoid feeling the pain of inadequacy, you accept that you, in this moment, feel ugly.
Part Two: The next step in giving yourself grace is allowing yourself to feel what you feel while you contain the feelings of ugliness and inadequacy in Love. While the LevelUp ManiScript Manifestation PowerMove Portal teaches you how to do this, for this blog post, is may be easiest to conceptualize this containment as Russian Dolls.
Instead of trying to kill off your painful feelings of ugliness, and instead of allowing them to dismantle you, you realize that this feeling of inadequacy or this feeling of ugliness is only one part, and it is the smallest part of who you are. Through reason, you can effectively work to integrate this hurting part of you into this Higher, Loving part of you through consolation and through patience.
Part Three: Finally, you dance the rhythm of allowing yourself to oscillate fully into the hurting part of yourself so that you realize the depth of the ugliness or of the inadequacy being felt and then fully into the Higher, Loving Self who realizes the Spirit or Truth that is. Through this rhythm, you enable yourself to gleam the significant insight that the pain has to offer you while also fully integrating this component of yourself so that it can be seen, felt, Loved, and, in time, dissolved into Love.
The LevelUp ManiScript Manifestation PowerMove Portal can effectively help you to reprogram your subconscious mind to manifest any desire of your heart, and, yes, this does include the desire to accept and love yourself as your dominant frequency.
